IS all hope lost for us? help please part x or x me and my gf and have together for x months. everything was going great. we went on vacation to new york together. we came back and were even closer. i went out two weeks ago with some guy that knows my gf but didnt know we were dating. he told me a disturbing story about her from her past. i questioned her about it. she got mad. the next day i went out again without her. she told me on sunday she was upset that i went out without telling her who i was with or where i was going. i apologized. on that monday she texted me when she got out of school... and we were texting back and forth for a while. then she just stopped when i asked what she was doing. i didnt think anything of it. until i ed her at around midnight and she didnt answer. we hung out on tuesday and i got her to come clean about what she did. she told me she hung out with her ex bf (a doctor). i pressed further and she didnt get home until xam. she swore she didnt do anything but talk. and she said she left his place at xam and slept in a parking lot. i bought it reluctantly. so that night i question the mutual friend more about her past. i also seek out another guy i know that dated her (but also doesnt know we are dating) to try to get info about her. she found out about all of this. and got really upset. she stopped being as sweet. i dont know if she stopped being sweet bc i was trying to find out stuff about her or bc she is still seeing the doctor. this past sunday was the last time i saw her. i told her if she cant be sweet like she used to be we should break up right now. she said she would get back to being that sweet it would just take some time. so i thought everything was resolved. that night she texted me questioning if i ever followed her or had someone follow her. i was offended. i tried ing her to talk about it but she didnt answer. i texted her the next day to see when i could see her again. she said she was busy mon night but the next day would be good. i was busy so she suggested wed. i agreed and asked "are we still together?" no response. (whenever she doesnt respond once. i dont keep texting or ing or anything. i leave it like that)

part x of x the next day i saw her online and asked about wednesday. she confirmed we were still good for wed. that night she texts and asks what i was doing. i didnt answer and x minutes later she says she just wanted to let me know she couldnt see me wed. i didnt text back. the next day (wed) she texts to see if i got her texts from the previous night. i didnt respond. a couple hours later... she texts and says "you arent texting back. either you dont want to talk to me or your phone is messing up. either way i think you know where this is going.' i didnt respond. on thursday there was no communication. on friday i was feeling really good after work so i texted her commenting on the beautiful day and told her i wanted to see her saturday. she asked "where have you been" i told her just busy and asked how she was. she said fine busy too. we texted back and forth a bit. mostly with me saying i was going to see her saturday and her saying that she wouldnt be able to see me this weekend. and after the weekend would be best. the last text sent was me saying. well i guess ill see you tomorrow then. even though she didnt agree to it. this mornign comes. i get up happy. i go and get coffee and take it to her house to suprise her. shes not home. i once and text once. no response. i go home a little upset. if we are broken up. i would like a little closure. that is the whole reason i want to see her is to clear things up. i am really confused. so are we together or what? How do i get time with her to just talk? why wouldnt she just let me break up with her? no ive never followed her or anything like that. is she back with the doctor? what do i do? HELP!:!?!?

WAY TOO MANY words

it took two full posts to say that she cheated? also, if you aren't already broken up, you should be.

you can see her after the weekend if you don't screw that up too.

A ten minute phone would clear all this up what's with all the texting? Did the two of you agree to be exclusive?

me love, mom