Help me with my wife I am really into alot of kinky stuff and I am naturally very dominant. The problem is that my wife is resisting me on alot of things. I would love to be her master but she just wont submit to me. Everytime I try to "dominate" her she resists big time and it just gets ugly. I've been trying to get her into it for 5 years and nearly no progress has been made. Anybody have any Ideas?

Is she into kink at all, or is it just the submission part she's having a hard time with? If she likes kink, maybe get into that mutually without doing the whole D/s roles.

How do you bring it up? You say you try to dominate her, do you talk to her about it before hand? If she's not used to it and you just spring it on her, then it's no wonder she gets upset

instead of pushing it on her have you tried talking to her about your desires before trying to make her your sub? Communication goes further than forcing your way into a dominate role....you may be SOL...she may just not be into it...

We have talked and talked and talked Hundreds of conversations have been had over the last 5 years on the subject, never does any good. I would understans if she was dom but thats not the case either

well then... it sounds to me that this kink is yours alone...she doesn't want to be a sub or dom, so there is no "helping" her or the situation....just live vicariously through the forum....

She may not be into a power exchange at all. In this case, Inked, is on the right track. Can you just live with kinky sex in the bedroom, and no domination outside of it?

If talking doesn't do any good WHAT in the hell makes you think trying to dominate her when she's unwilling is going to do any better? If she's just not into kink, then there's no way you're going to change her mind. Pushing it onto her against her will may change her mind about your marriage however. What sexual interests do you two share? Can you start over with a clean slate from there and enjoy your common interests, then grow from there?

Trying to dominate someone will not work. They have to be willing to give you their submission.

domination is a gift you can't make someone submit if its not her nature

Submission is the gift You can be as dominant as you wat but unless she "gives" you her submission your not going to be dominating her.

A gift that is expected to be respected!

Yes mam

Shouldn't that be... Yes MA'AM!

in your fantasy somewhere maybe ! hhaaa