ok I get it The swing group does not want to see it... it was not hidden for them not to see.

oooh - wax play!

proper caning techniques

Good - I have two old bentwood chairs that are just wrecks at this point.

a little help? I'm a longtime lurker first time poster. I am curious, what is a munch and where would I find one if it was something that I was interested in?

A munch is like happy hour at a bar. Where people in the kink lifestyle get together to socialize.

Example Washington DC

^^what she said^^ :)

*grabs* *ties* *keeps in remolded basement for my pleasure* Hi TitansBEAUTY

Well Goodnight everyone! Had enough fun for one day.

Choose for me This week I have two options. Option x) A lunch play date with a Master and his new subbie. I've been with this Master before but not his subbie. She's new to BDSM and is only bi-curious. Has been with another girl only one time but the other girl wasn't into it. She really wants to be with an experienced bi (that would be me). The Master is great in bed but not so great at ordering me around and doing things that I need done to me. (anal, forced BJs, etc.). However, as I said he's great in bed and I do love to try out new things (meaning his new subbie). Option x) Another lunch play date with just another guy and his wife. I've been with the wife a few times but this is the first time with her husband. The wife is a total freak in bed. Loves to use toys, loves anal, loves strap on. She's a little bit dominant. The husband is vanilla. So..I probably wouldn't get any BDSM to speak of..but I do like playing with the wife..and as I said before, I like new things..and her husband is something new. Which should I choose....if I could only choose one?

neither both of them sound like a lot of work personally and not really enjoyable from a kick back and enjoy it stand point in the middle of the week.

well you can't go wrong there but I would lean to trying both. there are x days in the weekend and I am now very jealous of you. :) If I had to choose one go with the first but just for the dominance thing and maybe,( a long shot) he will be better with x subs??

Get both parties together.

Hrmmm..tough choice, but I would have to say option x. I didn't see your question down below about the clubs...I am in the Pacific Northwest. The clubs/dungeons I go to are in Washington state and Oregon.

agree option one is good sui generis

I also am leaning towards #x And thanks for answering my question about the clubs. Sadly, I'm not near you.

I'd go with #x

i'd go with you and #x

wtf is #x??

You and me makes #x WLP

nevermind, i was gonna be stupid... but now i decided against it. lol

lol ok

Ditto, x show her how it's done!