Is submission and slavery in BDSM completely selfless? Is service purely done for services sake...or is it done for recognition, or out of appreciation for the Dominant partner?

In the moment, maybe, sometimes. But in the bigger picture if the sub or slave isn't getting anything out of it personally then something's wrong.

I would think she'd get a little resentful...

I would think they are doing it because it makes them happy to serve otherwise what is the point?

Happy to serve anybody? Isn't it a specific person usually, because of a specific reason?

yes. I wouldn't want to just serve ANYONE.

hey, that's just me though. It's a personal thing to me.

not just anyone? *puts away latex maid outfit*

excellent... ...i will bring it with me on my next trip back east...grin

Hey, I'm an anybody .

Hi, Steamerman. Do I know you? Hint: follow the link in my profile.

Don't know. What State are you from?

No, I don't think we have ever met. Howdy. I live in Michigan this month next month I am moving to South Dakota

Thanks. There's a guy around here with a similar nickname, a similar bio, and a kinky disposition. Pleased to meet you!

it is for me but not for a specific reason I serve him because being his submissive makes me happy ,and service is a part of that if it doesn't make both parties happy,it won't last long

It's almost always about a specific person, for specific reasons. Butalso needs to have a certain disposition, I think. Some people would not be inclined to subservience, no mr how they felt about the other person. For other people, it'sof the main ways they express love.