That doesn't make women freaky that makes you freaky. Don't take shit from any one!

The worse they treat me the faster I'm outta there. Why are you picking those women?

Actually, that doesn't describe me at all.

b/c those women are very emotionally unhealthy If you are one, get help. If you are trying to date one, run away and find someone who appreciates kindness.

I learned my lesson the 4th time Hopefully.

and for your efforts a reward: perhaps you could wear them with your down vest. *wry grin*

WOW- Thanks I needed a smile. My son and I have to move in the next week or so and she is being such a B. She cheated on me twice with a guy, the same guy. The only satisfaction I get is that he cuts grass for a living, and he is a redneck. Thinks gay ppl are nasty. I hope he treats her just how she deserves. Sorry I'm venting.

sorry for your pain. hope things improve Hug your son tight(ly).

You need to make better choices and this is coming from someone who is really hurting from a breakup after x x/x years. We built a life together, raised x great kids, bought a house, cars but when she started making me feel bad about myself by constantly wanting to party and play like she was x again I cut her loose. It's hard as h&%$ but you can't let people make you feel cruddy about yourself or abandon your principles. If you aren't being treated with the same respect/love that you give then time to wiggle free and strike a new path.

Thanks for that advice I understand I'm not the first person in this situation. I do need to make better choices. I have a good support system and am really trying to get my things in order to get out of her life and away from her as fast as I can. I know I wont even start to heal until I'm away from her. She wants to still see my son and be in his life but I think thats a control move to also be in mine. Thanks again

How long have you two been together? I also think it's a control move to want to stay involved with you.

It would have been x years today actually. My son has a football game tonight and that is my focus.

Well x years is a long time to be involved with your son too. Hmmmmm. How old is he? Does he want to see her?