do men check women out if theyre thinking she's fat? im a little overweight, big butt, but nice proportions. im very curvy. but im selfconcious about it and think i could stand to lose 15 pounds. (im 5'4", 145lbs) There is a man at work who checks me out, but doesnt go beyond that. SO im wondering if he's just looking at me, and looking and thinking i have a big butt and thighs, or if he likes what he sees. ??

do you see fat women with bfs and husbands?

yes we do and we'd by lying if we said we didn't

Some meat on bones can be a good thing

so many women want to look like 10 year old girls. It's insane.

pure insanity

I agree. A classy older women is HOT!!!!

I like how in Europe they have passed laws to ban anorexic models from doing fashion shoots and runways.

About Time.

Hey! Some of don't want to, and do anyways... :(

well, being naturally something is okay but actually trying to be that even though you have to stress and obsess over it is wrong.

personality is hugely important too so once you feel confident in yourself you won't care about your body type anymore. Your body type will probably pay off big time when you get to xs.

If I make it with my sanity intact, lol... :) I will never be confident, but it's a nice thought... thought I was there was, and crashed again... :/

I bet he is checking you out I'm a lil fat too, but it doesn't make me hideous or unworthy of attention. I'm fat in unfortunate proportions, even. He's probably totally diggin what you're bringin.

depression is a bitch

^this wasn't me, but it's true^ I am actually on my way back down the scale. Sorry if your image of me is shattered :(

most likely he likes what he sees But if you make the first move x% chance it will never lead to anything serious (which may or may not mr to you).

Gives you the pad of post it notes go for it.

;)