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As a lesbian, I have no problems with bisexual woman (not all of us do). Bisexual women seeking another woman in the section is totally appropriate; that being sa black women seeking for sex Lake Geneva id, bisexual women looking for a third to join her and a man or have a sexual encounter while their man watches are not. I know that not all bisexual women aren't looking for a threesome, but the ones who are flood aslist and make it hard to sort through the ads (and there is a W). By the way, if you're not sold on a dichotomy of sex and gender and you don't like the term bisexual, there's always "pansexual". Anyways, it saddens me to hear about discrimination like that occurring within the LGBTQ community. And since some ads take thought and time to create it is extra rude. I will never really understand why some lesbians dislike, even refuse to date bisexual women. If nothing else, it's not like we have this HUGE gay dating pool. I've known a couple lesbians whose girlfriends left them for a man. I think that is where a lot of the fear comes from. Being afraid that you could never be enough for someone, but most relationships don't pan out (it's a search) and does it really hurt more if your ex is with a man or woman? I've always sort of admired those who have the ability to look past a person's sex, though often that means little in terms of how progressive they might be on other fronts. Real bisexual women are always welcome in my book, though women who mess around with other women for men's sake and themselves bisexual to get them hot and bothered really make me bothered... in a bad way.
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